I grew up fearing abandonment. I grew up feeling abandoned. I couldn’t understand why I felt so ‘detached’ from others.
I knew I was different though. I knew I ‘viewed’ the world differently. Ever curious and ready to explore and push the boundaries, I went from one adventure to another and met some phenomenal people on the way. A serial entrepreneur, I believed in giving things a go and not leaving this world with regret. Sometimes a very lonely journey because not many saw the absolute joy in how you could feel when you made a decision and just went for it. Many things failed. Many things succeeded and in the process I got to become so centered and strong in whom I was becoming that it didn’t matter what others thought.
At the age of 13, I had my first paid job as a babysitter, which allowed me to interact with others on an entirely different level, I instantly grew up having to look after others. A love of Swimming got me through my Primary Years and I was a ‘fish’ in the water and spent every day frolicking in the local swimming pool. High School was definitely not for me and by the age of 15 and a half, I left school and went into full-time work as a Secretary & Librarian. Although a nice ease into the work environment I was still very sheltered. 3 Years later I discovered how dynamic and fun the Mining Industry was and how earning big dollars gave me even more opportunities to grow, learn and explore. From running Roadhouses, Manager Pubs, Leasing a Caravan Park whilst travelling Australia I found my way back to Perth and wanted to dig deeper into helping others and choose a career in Beauty Therapy. I was in my element, making others feel good, and after graduating and being flat broke again from having to pay my own way ( which I did in all my ventures), a Mining stint allowed me to build by funds back up. I was never without a job. I had such a good rapport with my ex-bosses from various jobs all I had to do was ring up and ask, willing to work in any capacity, even if it meant getting up at 3.30am to work in camp kitchens and peeling hundreds of kilos of carrots a day, or working as an Explosive Tech in the bottom of the Pit in central northern Australia in 54 degree heat.
At the age of 23, the man I fell in love with and had moved in together with, was killed in a car accident.
I was lost and very sad. He had taught me how a true gentleman was. He taught me deep love. He showed me who I got to be in a relationship. He was a magnificent man and I honour all he was. It was a turbulent time in my life. I felt lost and again abandoned. I made some silly decisions. I also made decision’s that would change the trajectory of my life.
My Beauty & Massage skills were always my back-up to earn an extra dollar and even when I was on the mines, I would do mobile massage just to keep the ‘connection’ massage gave me, feeding my soul and making others feel good. Between working as an Underground Miner, Machine Operator, Bus Driver, Courier Driver, Cleaner, Child Care Worker over many years I fell in love again and married a man whom was the next chapter of my life that lead to having 2 beautiful cherubs, a successful Day Spa and a few different homes, with us finally residing just our of Yallingup, Western Australia in our custom built, gorgeous home. 13 years we were wed. 7 of those were good, great sometimes. 6 of those were very tough. Emotionally. Financially. I could see a familiar pattern unfolding. One I had witnessed in my own parents marriage. One of disconnection. Sadness. Stress. Loveless. Ruled by finances. I longed for my a husband to just respect himself, respect me. I laid awake many many nights visualising him to be more connected, simplify and be grateful for all nature and good health and great conversation had to offer. To be proud of his appearance, take care of his health and notice my beauty. I longed to feel my own self worth again.
After many years of weaving through deep loneliness and heartache, of totally separating myself from SELF, I made a decision. A decision to ‘Break the Cycle’.
I asked for a Divorce and because I was broke and broken I could see no way out. But, I knew it would require a massive amount of courage. Something we all have to make the change. I was rescued by family and they helped me establish myself in a new place and between my full-time work as a Beauty Therapist and some occasional Pharmacy work I barely made ends meet BUT nothing equated to the feeling of finding myself again.
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I have had the pleasure of knowing Kerry for 17 years and have recently undertaken her one-on-one coaching sessions. Kerry has a way of diffusing the anxiousness and chaos from a problem, and in my case old patterns and programs I run, and helps to create clarity and calm. What I find with Kerry is that she has the ability to relate and communicate with such ease and in a very real down to earth no bullshit way which not only do I love but her natural vibe then allows me to feel relaxed, comfortable and able to be open up and be vulnerable. I feel I grow after each session with Kerry and can hand on heart recommend her coaching sessions.
I heard Kerry speak at the ‘Yilgarn Ladies Day’ As I listened to her so much of what she was saying resonated with me. I realised that without having heard about her 7 step program I had already been implementing some of these things in my life over the last 4 years. As soon as I got home I told my partner that I was going to teach him this 7 step program, lets face it if it works for women it will work for men too. I went home from Kerry’s talk feeling excited and inspired to implement even more of what she had spoken about into my life. Thanks so much Kerry. You are an inspirational lady. Your advice is worth more than all the jewels in the world. Bless you
I have been through some very dark times and I continue clawing my way out of the darkness on and off. Kerry clears my vision so that I may see the sunshine. Every time I slip back, Kerry is the hand outstretched to pull me back out. She has an incredible way of putting a spin on things, guiding me into a better headspace and teaching me about being worthwhile and having self love and respect. She is powerful and instilled in me power. She loves unconditionally and has no judgement. She embraces the mistakes of our lives and shows how it has built character and has added texture and flavour to us as human beings rather than seeing its failures. If you are struggling in any area of your life I highly recommend Kerry to help you see your worth, power and the queen that you are.
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